Is there a beautiful girl in your class who you would like to go out
with? Is there somebody at work who has caught your eye? If so, here's a
few steps to help you get sexy.
Have confidence in yourself: It's no secret that people love guys who are confident. It lets you be that cocky, grinning and attractive man that you know you can be. Consider these ideas for growing your confidence:
Accept yourself. Remember, if you're going to try to convince other people that you're amazing, you have to be the first person to buy into it. Stop obsessing over your flaws, and focus on your best traits. Even if there are things you'd like to change about yourself, acknowledge that you're a work-in-progress and
There is a big difference between being confident and being arrogant. Arrogance can be interpreted as being confident in a way that's negative toward others. Confidence is almost always positive.
Be the sexiest version of yourself: Move powerfully by taking slightly longer steps, and work on not fidgeting. Keep your head movements and hand movements a little slower in social situations and you'll look more confident in general. Don't stress too much about posture, the guy with his back completely straight in his chair just looks strange.
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Make sure you have good hygiene:
* Taking a shower every day to every three days is mandatory. If you aren't sweating a whole lot, two days is pushing it, and even if you aren't sweating a lot at the three day mark you should take care of it regardless.
* Brush twice a day, and floss once a day. People don't take this seriously enough and soon come to regret it. If your teeth are more than a tiny bit crooked, you should consider orthodontics. A straight smile makes a big difference.
* Wear deodorant every day. Body odor is not an attractive smell, and nobody around you enjoys it. It's a simple routine that can reap large benefits in your friendships and relationships. Most deodorant doesn't smell enough to ever be "Too much". Apply liberally and make sure you get antiperspirant deodorant every time, it'll save you shirts in the long run.
* Cultivating a scruffy look, especially at an early age til the time you are hitting middle age can be very successful. This does not count those dirty looking mustaches you see from time to time, shave that if you have it.
* Pluck your unibrow or shave it, either way keep it off your face if you have one. No exceptions.
* Wash your face every day. This helps to clear up both red acne and blackheads. However, if you are a teenager a little acne is totally normal. If you're having trouble with blackheads, get anything with "Salacylic Acid" in it in a 1%-3% concentration and follow the directions on the bottle. If you're having trouble with mostly red acne, grab a tube of Benzoyle Peroxide 8-10%. Both of these are very cheap (Ten bucks and under) and last weeks. They are the same ingredients as "Proactive" which runs for prices much, much higher.
*Using cologne to your advantage is a smart move, but don't do it like one of those "BROS" with an axe bottle. Get yourself a container of a decent cologne that you enjoy at a department store. Spray it once on your hand and rub your neck with it, wipe the excess on your wrist. That's it, you're good. Much more than that and people will find you annoying rather than good-smelling.
Wear nice clothes. The style of clothes that you wear doesn't matter, because you're expressing your personality. Whatever you choose to wear, though, should be clean and ironed (if appropriate). Also, do not wear pants in such a manner that reveal your underwear. This is not sexy to people who possess a mature and respectable sense of fashion. If you are going to wear jeans, make sure they are not too baggy. This, too, does not look good.
Conversation is a cruel mistress who will never fail to frustrate and surprise you: She also holds the keys to all the beautiful women beyond her doors. The most important things to do are to open fearlessly, watch her body language and realize that it takes lots of practice. Guides exist to help with the amount of practice it takes, but there is no substitute for going to the mall and anywhere else women gather to talk to them. Over, and over, and over, and... On to the next bit.
Don't swear a ton, but don't cringe either. Everyone does it, most people do it frequently including the girls you think are completely crazy attractive. Just keep it somewhere between classy and normal and you'll look good. Don't do it at all if you feel the need.
Have confidence in yourself: It's no secret that people love guys who are confident. It lets you be that cocky, grinning and attractive man that you know you can be. Consider these ideas for growing your confidence:
Accept yourself. Remember, if you're going to try to convince other people that you're amazing, you have to be the first person to buy into it. Stop obsessing over your flaws, and focus on your best traits. Even if there are things you'd like to change about yourself, acknowledge that you're a work-in-progress and
There is a big difference between being confident and being arrogant. Arrogance can be interpreted as being confident in a way that's negative toward others. Confidence is almost always positive.
Be the sexiest version of yourself: Move powerfully by taking slightly longer steps, and work on not fidgeting. Keep your head movements and hand movements a little slower in social situations and you'll look more confident in general. Don't stress too much about posture, the guy with his back completely straight in his chair just looks strange.
.
Make sure you have good hygiene:
* Taking a shower every day to every three days is mandatory. If you aren't sweating a whole lot, two days is pushing it, and even if you aren't sweating a lot at the three day mark you should take care of it regardless.
* Brush twice a day, and floss once a day. People don't take this seriously enough and soon come to regret it. If your teeth are more than a tiny bit crooked, you should consider orthodontics. A straight smile makes a big difference.
* Wear deodorant every day. Body odor is not an attractive smell, and nobody around you enjoys it. It's a simple routine that can reap large benefits in your friendships and relationships. Most deodorant doesn't smell enough to ever be "Too much". Apply liberally and make sure you get antiperspirant deodorant every time, it'll save you shirts in the long run.
* Cultivating a scruffy look, especially at an early age til the time you are hitting middle age can be very successful. This does not count those dirty looking mustaches you see from time to time, shave that if you have it.
* Pluck your unibrow or shave it, either way keep it off your face if you have one. No exceptions.
* Wash your face every day. This helps to clear up both red acne and blackheads. However, if you are a teenager a little acne is totally normal. If you're having trouble with blackheads, get anything with "Salacylic Acid" in it in a 1%-3% concentration and follow the directions on the bottle. If you're having trouble with mostly red acne, grab a tube of Benzoyle Peroxide 8-10%. Both of these are very cheap (Ten bucks and under) and last weeks. They are the same ingredients as "Proactive" which runs for prices much, much higher.
*Using cologne to your advantage is a smart move, but don't do it like one of those "BROS" with an axe bottle. Get yourself a container of a decent cologne that you enjoy at a department store. Spray it once on your hand and rub your neck with it, wipe the excess on your wrist. That's it, you're good. Much more than that and people will find you annoying rather than good-smelling.
Wear nice clothes. The style of clothes that you wear doesn't matter, because you're expressing your personality. Whatever you choose to wear, though, should be clean and ironed (if appropriate). Also, do not wear pants in such a manner that reveal your underwear. This is not sexy to people who possess a mature and respectable sense of fashion. If you are going to wear jeans, make sure they are not too baggy. This, too, does not look good.
Conversation is a cruel mistress who will never fail to frustrate and surprise you: She also holds the keys to all the beautiful women beyond her doors. The most important things to do are to open fearlessly, watch her body language and realize that it takes lots of practice. Guides exist to help with the amount of practice it takes, but there is no substitute for going to the mall and anywhere else women gather to talk to them. Over, and over, and over, and... On to the next bit.
Don't swear a ton, but don't cringe either. Everyone does it, most people do it frequently including the girls you think are completely crazy attractive. Just keep it somewhere between classy and normal and you'll look good. Don't do it at all if you feel the need.
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