Make her laugh. Whether
it be through a funny story, a joke, or an observation on how uptight
airport management can be, making her smile will give her a confidence
boost.
Give her compliments. Bonus points if you do more than compliment her eyes and smile, which she's heard before, and go out of your way to notice little details or features that don't get complimented a lot.
Give her presents. Simple, small things: not expensive--expensive gifts can feel like you're being pushy--but beautiful and possibly intimate. Maybe a pendant, roses, or perfume (keep perfume fresh-smelling and light if you're not sure what she likes). Really good chocolate, even just six truffles, is nearly always a good idea.
If you're married or have been in a long relationship, tell her you love her. This will make her feel good about herself, and that's always sexy. If you've only been together for a short while, "I really like you" or "I really enjoy spending time with you" is the thing to say. "I love you" at this point can feel pressuring for the woman.
Make her feel feminine. Chivalry isn't dead, and being polite is never going to make you look bad. A touch on the arm or gently brushing a fallen eyelash off her cheek are classic flirty actions that, unless you've already made yourself out to be a real jerk, will make her feel great--and great about you.
Don't put her down! It's the most important rule. Don't make jokes about things she's insecure about, especially weight and looks. Chipping away at a woman's self-esteem is a tactic reserved for jerkwad pickup artists, and doesn't make anyone feel sexy.
*Flirt! It's not as daunting as it sounds. Just talk to her, be friendly and honestly interested in her, and act like you enjoy spending time with her. Flirting is essential at any stage of your relationship if you want to make her feel sexy, and it's also how you start a relationship without being creepy.
* If you know her pretty well, give her a back or foot massage just to make her feel good!
* Be confident. Women mimic the attitudes of people they like, so she'll act confident, too. This might take a while if she's naturally shy, but you'll be surprised at your effect on her over time.
* Give her some space once in a while. You don't want to be clingy.
* If you're admiring a lady from afar, go up and talk to her! Unless she's a jerk (in which case, don't waste your time on her), she'll at least interact with you, even if she's not romantically interested in you.
* Write her a love letter or poem and put it in a place she'll find it: a book she's reading, her car, a place she's not expecting that surprise. Your words are your gift to her, and she'll be able to read them again and again.
* Don't be pushy. Your motive in making her feel sexy should be to get to know her and make her feel good about herself, not to make her feel sexy for direct application as soon as possible.
Give her compliments. Bonus points if you do more than compliment her eyes and smile, which she's heard before, and go out of your way to notice little details or features that don't get complimented a lot.
Give her presents. Simple, small things: not expensive--expensive gifts can feel like you're being pushy--but beautiful and possibly intimate. Maybe a pendant, roses, or perfume (keep perfume fresh-smelling and light if you're not sure what she likes). Really good chocolate, even just six truffles, is nearly always a good idea.
If you're married or have been in a long relationship, tell her you love her. This will make her feel good about herself, and that's always sexy. If you've only been together for a short while, "I really like you" or "I really enjoy spending time with you" is the thing to say. "I love you" at this point can feel pressuring for the woman.
Make her feel feminine. Chivalry isn't dead, and being polite is never going to make you look bad. A touch on the arm or gently brushing a fallen eyelash off her cheek are classic flirty actions that, unless you've already made yourself out to be a real jerk, will make her feel great--and great about you.
Don't put her down! It's the most important rule. Don't make jokes about things she's insecure about, especially weight and looks. Chipping away at a woman's self-esteem is a tactic reserved for jerkwad pickup artists, and doesn't make anyone feel sexy.
*Flirt! It's not as daunting as it sounds. Just talk to her, be friendly and honestly interested in her, and act like you enjoy spending time with her. Flirting is essential at any stage of your relationship if you want to make her feel sexy, and it's also how you start a relationship without being creepy.
* If you know her pretty well, give her a back or foot massage just to make her feel good!
* Be confident. Women mimic the attitudes of people they like, so she'll act confident, too. This might take a while if she's naturally shy, but you'll be surprised at your effect on her over time.
* Give her some space once in a while. You don't want to be clingy.
* If you're admiring a lady from afar, go up and talk to her! Unless she's a jerk (in which case, don't waste your time on her), she'll at least interact with you, even if she's not romantically interested in you.
* Write her a love letter or poem and put it in a place she'll find it: a book she's reading, her car, a place she's not expecting that surprise. Your words are your gift to her, and she'll be able to read them again and again.
* Don't be pushy. Your motive in making her feel sexy should be to get to know her and make her feel good about herself, not to make her feel sexy for direct application as soon as possible.
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